
We went to the beach a couple of weekends ago and I was able to capture this pic when Seth was not chasing the sea gulls....
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her
Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and
the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully
and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
'Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass.
'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband,
no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need
Sisters.
Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.'
'Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women... your girlfriends, your daughters, and
all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do.'
What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just gotten married?
Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake!
A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make
my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more
women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually
came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about.
As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters are
the mainstays of her life. After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what
I've learned:
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't do what they're supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you.
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself,
the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you,
pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's
end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and carry
you out.
Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law,
Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!
The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began
this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that
lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Two of our close friends have suffered tremendously during the past week. They had to deliver their baby boy at 37 weeks gestation, knowing he was not going to be alive. We have been through the trauma of miscarriage but cannot fathom what they have gone through. They are very strong in their faith and know their little one is in heaven with God, which is "way cooler than here with us." But it still hurts. It will not stop hurting, but as time goes by, it will become easier to cope. Please pray for them and their strength to get through this. We love you guys! ((HUGS))!!


A few weekends ago, we attended Piratefest. Piratefest is actually a combination of Greenville's International Festival and the Purple & Gold Pigskin Pigout Party. I think there is also an art show. We thought that Seth would get alot out of it considering that pirates are one of his current fascinations. The organizers had closed down Evans street from 5th Street to the Town Commons and the street was lined with vendors.
The city of Greenville unveiled the painted Pirates that will adorn businesses throughout the city. Different artists and organizations painted these pirate statues. I had a vested interest in this because Greene Central High School's art classes designed one of these pirates. It is the mosaic tile one in the center of picture that has "Arrrrrt!!" on the hat. The pirates were really pretty and they will look good around the city.
